To my dear brother and sister,
Hopefully this won’t get silenced and hacked again as communication has been limited or controlled for no good reason. It’s not helping anyone not knowing the honest truth.
Forget the statistics or subject of “Parental alienation” but I will describe what isn’t right as result of one’s malice. Pure malice and you must be informed of truth because this isn’t right on you or children also.
Especially as parents yourselves. I and many people have seen repeated first hand here preplanned setups using local authorities and cover ups. No other reason but malice and everything has been piecing together all our lives and my life. Nothing is good about what is being done to our family or any family. To deliberately destroy a person their family unit and any possibility of defense for no reason using the system to harm and manipulated every possible chance to alienate everyone telling everyone different things for simply malice nothing else.
I saw the worst surface and others did too. I can’t believe the participating bystaders and all the worst definitely started after both of you were finally out of state and I was in other side of town and no one informed me. I was kept from the house constantly. Recently last couple years I coudn’t put into words but no mother would do what ours did not just mother but any normal human being and with the intent to wipe me and dad out of existence. Everything else makes sense and to act like nothing happened to the outside and goes back to my sister who I don’t hear from because of our mom’s malice is not right. Plus last time mom was around here still she kept persisting and persisting her taunting stories like dad is a sick person like she’s drilling what she knows is lies and would message me that she would ask suggestive ideas to my sister who dad hasn’t seen in a long time and is far away. While preventing communication that’s nothing but malice and there is no reason to say such a thing to intentionally confuse people because the manipulating agenda is definitely to plant doubt and confusion to completely alienate and destroy in the worst form ever. I remember now the way she’d use us when he wasn’t there to talk bad behind him to others so slowly and surely he was isolated more and more as our lives moved on and same with me too. I didn’t understand but I see it all now. Just last year as I was in shock to find out my apartment was wiped out and locks changed unexpectedly being laughed at by those owners as they said “everything is gone it’s with your mother” a few days prior my mom told me on a phone call that she never cared to be a mother and that she faked it… This another clue shes not a normal person and this was while dad wasn’t well but I doubt this is anything a mother would do and if i was an abused victim in the sense she insists…. Why this detest? No come on these are contradictions and you can’t look at your children and think this cold hearted act is love and then go on a vacation basically like nothing happened and even have excitement for some reason it doesn’t make sense. Think about it…. Please.
I can go on but consider this about how she is with the harassing taunting messages and more she’s done here and how bad it got it’s nothing good and knowing how fabricated so much from her is like all the cropped constant messages and however she has admittedly setup in one of the messages the incident when I was a toddler and I realized it was used to fabricate the case against him now that was totally out of his character and a purely extremely abusive tactic once she had you guys out state she coudln’t wait and I was interestingly not informed until recently.
I am the oldest I know dad did everything for us with pure sincerety with everyone he served for too but nothing was as important as us he went through everything for us and mom was always the biggest supporter playing the strong backbone for him and her ideas always to keep a lot in storage now I see the ending of this and it’s horrific. We are all betrayed. For a mother to do what even I went through, but witnessed worse. People here know it. No remorse or empathy acting like nothing happened this isn’t the same as what dad felt towards and feels now except this is a grief. She lead him on and normalized I realized too much degrading him and downplaying him like every injury or suffering as she played two cards siding with people he stayed away from only to be lead to nothing and with no one there and family far away after mom purposely used the cruel level of spiritual abuse behind him making his alienation from what he loved further and further away while making him baptise all the kids just to be discarded to say the least. I saw the taunting cruel cruel silent treatments and messages she would add to everything while here and everyone far as he just had a heart attack but can’t defend himself or question making him feel worse. I saw it all and I am still in shock by the ones in on it and saying nothing… An agony, while she would tell people he’s suicidal but that wasn’t the case she was doing everything possible to make that seem like that but I saw the truth and others did but we’re still around. Her cruel abuse tactics that she planned early on. This is a very severe level of abuse and worse so I hope this cycle won’t repeat and you really consider the facts… It’s worse than anything imaginable what happened to our family in a slow systematically planned method I urge you to consider and think for yourselves a bit now.
We were neglected by mom as children you know that and my dear sister you know mom ignored you a lot and only took advantage of the situation once you had kids and her push to move you up there was a big unfortunate first step to her cruel plan.
Abuse is not okay I urge for things to take a turn for the better you don’t know the impact this has done and the beautiful precious things of dad’s youth and poetry he never got to publish and so much we had wiped out by the only mother we knew. Hopefully what we can salvage see what’s going on can happen. Losing everything to the point no proof of where me and dad came from that’s abuse. Everything was done so cruel here I can’t express this enough hopefully you both will see me and dad as family again and mom did admit in messages before those accounts got locked that she planned the estrangement from the beginning but I don’t worry what happens to mom as much as you both should know the void dad and I carry daily. When we get harrasive scrutiny for trying to contact my sister or anyone that’s not normal and that’s abuse coercive control and indimidation tactic please remember that.
Discrediting a loved ones emotional and spiritual needs isn’t love. Division isn’t love. Lies is not love. Planted confusion isn’t love these are not from God that we learned. This is all extreme form of psychological abuse along with other forms of abuse and more for all of us as well because everyone’s denied the truth and system has been manipulated. Keep asking youself about the situation and more “Does this sound right..” Really think about it.